God has created us with an innate desire for the opposite sex. In guys we develop this desire and attraction usually in the teen years. So it is natural for guys to be attracted to girls, however it is partly the girls’ responsibility to make sure she is not throwing jet fuel on an already stoked fire.
So if you haven’t figured it out by now guys are visual, completely and totally visual. Why do you think girls clothing is designed the way it is? Low cut this, see through that, and clothes that seem to be painted on. It is designed this way to be attractive to the opposite sex.
To this day, even being married, I have to make a conscious decision to look away from those things. If I don’t, my mind will go to places that I don’t want it to go. The hard thing to grasp is that I even have to do this at church. Now please understand that I am not some sick pervert, I am simply telling you that our hearts are perverted from birth. We, as Christians, need the Holy Spirit’s help to keep our minds in check. Like I said previously, I was a high school teacher. Fortunately it was at a Christian school where they had uniforms. However I also helped with the Wednesday night high school study at the church. To be honest it was more of a fashion show than a Bible study. It was like people would come just to see what everyone else looked like without a uniform. It was like a giant stumble/flesh fest. I could literally watch guys undressing girls with their minds. You could literally see this happen. And these were the so-called Christians.
Ladies remember just because a guy goes to church, that doesn’t make him a Christian.
Excerpt taken from the book Waiting for the One. To continue reading click here.
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